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[grandpaladin]

Tell me friends.

Are there those of you who find it difficult to forgive another?

I am curious. For personal reasons -- there is no judgment here.

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[frostedplum]

I think it depends on what they've done and how that action affected you or innocent people.

If something they did really hurt me, then yes, I think I'd have a hard time forgiving them. But I can't think of any examples right now.

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[grandpaladin]

I understand. Very much so.

What if they have already been forgiven by others? Others that you trust.

[frostedplum]

[ Oh. She's like 75% sure she knows what he's talking about now. ]

I would talk to those people that you trust and ask them in a non-accusing manner why they chose to forgive. It may help you better understand. You know, put things in perspective? But in the end, the choice to forgive is yours.

[grandpaladin]

[Reinhardt is incapable of vagueposting.]

Hah, you are as brilliant as they say.

This is worth a try, I think.

[frostedplum]

Sure! You never know what could happen if you never try.

And... if you want to ask me about anything-- about anyone, and how I feel about it, you can.

[ Smooooooooth. ]

[grandpaladin]

I get the feeling you already know what this is about.

[frostedplum]

I'm sorry, Reinhardt. It seemed kind of obvious to me.

[grandpaladin]

To you and the others previously of Overwatch, I think.

[frostedplum]

It's the only situation I could think of that would affect you in such a way. Especially since he's very stubborn.

[grandpaladin]

Usually I would say that was a good thing!

Now

I am uncertain.

[frostedplum]

In the end, you can only control your actions, not his. So the most important thing here is if you want to forgive or not. After that, you can decide what you want to do in the face of his stubbornness.