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Sideswipe {RiD} ([personal profile] redshitlord) wrote in [community profile] thisavrou2016-04-24 10:33 pm

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HELP OK SO

UM

I NEED TO KNOW LIKE WHAT YOU DO WHEN YOU ASK SOMEONE TO GO DO SOMETHING AND THEY SAY YES

ALSO WHEN YOU KIND OF MAYBE



THINK THEYRE REALLY COOL ??? IN A LOT OF WAYS

TAILGTE SAYS BRING A PRESENT AND TALK ABOUT YROUSELF BUT ?????



HOW DO I DO THIS HELP ITS IMPORTANT


[No, it's really not that important. He's just panicking and completely misreading a situation. Whoops.]
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[personal profile] vengeance_driven 2016-04-25 11:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Sorry, this Cybertronian relationship thing is still pretty new to me. [It's still a wild ride hearing him try to say "Cybertronian" in his accent.]

So.

I think you should figure out things this person likes, but don't overdo it. Start with little thing they like. And let them talk a lot, because if they talk a lot you got a better idea of what to do next time.
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[personal profile] vengeance_driven 2016-04-26 03:59 am (UTC)(link)
Thanks. I still have to work a little extra with certain words.

That is a sticky situation. And does not leave a lot of guess work for hypothetical questions. At least you already know all of their more annoying habits and are okay with those.
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[personal profile] vengeance_driven 2016-04-26 07:14 am (UTC)(link)
Thanks. English is actually my third language. I speak Serbian in my place of birth. But I keep speaking English for practice, even though it can translate. I'm learning Khelish as a fourth but I am very definitely not good at it yet.

Just take it easy. I am sure if he can live with you okay, then he can go out with you okay. And sometimes a gift is good, as long as you know it is something they like. That's more important than expensive or rare. Just that they like it.
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[personal profile] vengeance_driven 2016-04-27 12:22 am (UTC)(link)
What makes you worry that he might not like it? I mean, if you were not to go out on a date, would it be something you would consider offering him anyway?
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[personal profile] vengeance_driven 2016-04-27 06:59 am (UTC)(link)
I guess then it's good to think of it more as... ah... you want to give it because you want him to have it. Not so you will look impressive. Because wanting them to have good things is more important.
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[personal profile] vengeance_driven 2016-04-28 05:16 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, see? Makes giving it feel a whole lot better, right?